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Bill Gates Says Parents in 2025 Should Really Rethink How They’re Raising Their Children

Written by Alisson Ficher
Published on 13/05/2025 at 13:05
Updated on 13/05/2025 at 14:39
Bill Gates alerta sobre os desafios da criação dos filhos em 2025 e o impacto das redes sociais e tecnologia na saúde mental das crianças.
Bill Gates alerta sobre os desafios da criação dos filhos em 2025 e o impacto das redes sociais e tecnologia na saúde mental das crianças.
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The Impact of Technology on the Formation of New Generations Is a Growing Challenge, with Reflections from Experts on the Effects of Social Networks and Mobile Devices on Child Development.

Bill Gates, one of the biggest names in technology and founder of Microsoft, has become increasingly concerned about the future of education and the development of children.

In his reflections shared on the blog Gates Notes, the businessman and philanthropist warns of the challenges of raising children in the current context, marked by the massive presence of technology and a growing dependence on digital devices.

Childhood in the Digital World: Freedom Without Limits

For Gates, children in 2025 are caught between two extremes: on one hand, there is the excess of freedom offered by social networks and the internet, where young people access content without any filters or supervision, often harming their development.

On the other hand, the physical world is increasingly monitored and restricted, with parents concerned about overprotecting their children, limiting their experiences in the real world.

According to Gates, the impact of this unbalanced upbringing is profound, and the effects of this “uncontrolled freedom” in the virtual world, combined with overprotection in the physical world, are clear.

Teenagers are increasingly distanced from reality, living more in the online world than in person, which results in serious consequences for their emotional and social development.

The “Great Reconfiguration”: The Generation of Smartphones and Social Networks

These concerns of Gates are based on the work of psychologist Jonathan Haidt, author of the book The Anxious Generation, which analyzes the effects of technology on younger generations.

According to Haidt, since the early 2010s, with the rise of smartphones and social networks, there has been a “great reconfiguration” in how children and adolescents interact with the world.

The constant presence of screens, which occupy a large part of young people’s time, has created a new pattern of socialization, in which virtual interactions increasingly replace face-to-face relationships.

This change brings, on one hand, a risk of social alienation and, on the other, a significant increase in mental health issues among young people.

The Real Impacts on Children’s Mental Health and Behavior

Haidt’s research highlights a concerning paradox: while children have almost total freedom in the digital environment, their activities in the physical world are excessively monitored.

This imbalance results in a lack of concrete experience with the real world, making it difficult to develop autonomy and important skills to face everyday challenges.

The number of hours that teenagers spend in front of screens is alarming.

Studies show that they spend an average of six to eight hours a day consuming digital content — not including time dedicated to school activities.

This behavior has led to an increase in various psychological and social problems, such as:

  • Increased cases of anxiety, depression, and eating disorders.
  • More frequent aggressive behaviors, decreased self-esteem, and difficulties in social adaptation.
  • Significant reduction in time dedicated to sleep, reading, and in-person socialization.
  • Decrease in outdoor physical activities, harming physical and mental health.

These data highlight a concerning picture that, according to Gates, is directly related to how children interact with technology and the lack of concrete experiences in the physical world.

The Brain of Children and Attention Disorders

Attention, for Bill Gates, works like a muscle: the more it is interrupted and scattered, the harder it becomes to maintain focus.

The constant exposure to interruptions from social networks and digital notifications has profound effects on young people’s ability to concentrate, resulting in an increase in disorders such as ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder).

This is not a temporary phenomenon, but a real change in children’s brains.

Moreover, there is a division of impact between boys and girls.

Girls, for example, are experiencing a significant increase in psychological disorders, while boys have seen a decline in academic performance and a reduction in university enrollment rates. These effects are attributed to less real interaction and the distancing from risk experiences, which are essential for emotional and social development in young people.

How to Rebalance This Scale?

For Bill Gates and Jonathan Haidt, the solution to this imbalance cannot depend solely on parents. The answer requires coordinated action involving schools, technology companies, and public policies.

The change must be collective, seeking collaboration from all sectors to ensure that children can have a more balanced and healthy childhood.

Among the possible solutions highlighted are:

  • Better control access to social networks, with strict age verification and usage limits.
  • Delay smartphone usage, allowing children and adolescents to focus more on interactions in the real world before being exposed to digital networks.
  • Create cell phone-free zones in schools, encouraging face-to-face interactions and healthy social development.
  • Encourage more outdoor play and physical activities to ensure that children connect with the physical and social environment.

Responsibility Is Everyone’s

Bill Gates emphasizes that it is not enough for families to be responsible for their children’s digital education.

The balance between freedom in the digital world and protection in the physical world is a collective responsibility that requires joint action from all involved in shaping new generations.

For him, the book The Anxious Generation is an essential guide for educators, parents, and politicians, offering not only an analysis of the problems but also practical suggestions for restoring balance between the digital and the physical in raising children.

And you, what do you think about the impact of technology on children’s education? What measures do you believe could help rebalance this scale? Share your opinion in the comments!

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Alisson Ficher

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